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Week 20: update post

Thanks so much for all the sweet congrats on my last post.  I’ve waited what seems like a lifetime to make that announcement, and I’m so thankful and humbled that God finally allowed it to happen!  You all just made it that much sweeter.

So, here’s a quick breakdown of the last few months:

November 12, 2011 – We had our embryos transferred and felt like we were already pregnant.  I’d be lying if I said I didn’t feel scared that it wouldn’t work…but from the moment we left the hospital, we never stopped praying for our babies.  I would lay on the couch and talk to them all the time, envisioning them as strong, healthy babies.  From day one it felt like they were here to stay.

after transfer


November 21, 2011:
We both left work a little early and met at home to wait for the call.  We waited…and waited…and waited.  And finally about 15 minutes after we were supposed to receive the call, we broke down and dialed the clinic.  After identifying myself and holding for eternity, the nurse answered the phone with a “congratulations!”  We’ve never felt so full of joy.  I was considered 4 weeks already:)  We drove straight to Baby Gap and bought onesies.

November 24 – 25, 2011: Shared with the family and gave so many thanks.

December 12, 2011: Week 7. All day nausea set in.  Sick in the morning…sick at night.  I had no appetite at all, and the only things that sounded somewhat edible were things I would usually never consider putting in my body.  Sorry babies.

December 22, 2011Week 8.  Went for our 2nd ultrasound and got the biggest surprise of our lives – not 1 but 2 babies! Praise the Lord.  We spent the following 2 weeks celebrating Christmas and sharing our 2nd piece of amazing news with our families. Oh, and of course every 10 minutes saying to each other “are we really having twins???”

sadly, we didn’t get any pics when we told mom and dad McCoy

Weeks 9- 13: Sick. sick. sick.  But oh, so happy.  I literally did almost nothing besides go to work and come home and lay on the couch for over a month.  Jon gets major daddy/husband points for keeping the house running and going on wild goose chases to find anything I could eat.  Oh, and lots and lots of backrubs.  I’ve heard people say that a woman becomes a mom when she gets pregnant, but a man doesn’t become a dad until the baby (ies:) is born.  Not true for my husband.  In a way, he’s been taking care of these babies for months already!

Week 14: Started to feel a tiny bit better.  We decided to make the big announcement on Facebook and the blog.  Up until this point, I was so so thankful for the little babies inside me, but I had a really hard time letting go of my fear and just trusting God.  For 18 months I had longed to be pregnant, and in my mind I think I had decided that it could never really happen.  Every month had brought so much hurt, and it seemed impossible that it could have finally happened. I know that sounds kind of crazy, but the fear of losing them terrified me.  When we announced our news to the world, I felt like a huge burden was lifted off my shoulders.  It finally felt real, and I finally started really believing that our babies were going to be okay.

Week 15: Took my first picture of the bump!

Week 16: Bump picture number 2.  This was the week I finally started to really feel almost like myself again.  The nausea completely subsided, and I even started to feel a little more energetic!

Week 17:

Week 17 was pretty monumental.  I worked out for the first time in 3 months!   And I felt so good about it. When I started the IVF process, I was told I shouldn’t have physical activity, and since I followed every wives tale from eating pineapple  to trying to laugh a lot after transfer….eating more eggs…you name it, stopping my workouts was a no brainer.  And of course it just continued from there – I felt too scared of hurting the babies in those paranoid first several weeks of being pregnant, and then I was so sick I could barely talk on the phone much less get off the couch.  So finally on Monday of week 17 I pulled out the prenatal bootcamp DVD my mom got me for Christmas and then I went for a long walk on two different days after that.  Sad how accomplished I feel about walking around the neighborhood.  I finally feel like I’m doing something good for myself and for the twins.

Week 18:

baby a:)

This was the week we found out the gender of our little babies!  I was so nervous that they wouldn’t cooperate for the ultrasound and we’d be disappointed…but they were good little babies.  Let’s hope that’s a good indication of the months/years to come:)  The ultrasound tech started off by just letting us see them while she took pictures to send to our doctor.  Then it was baby A’s turn to be examined.  It only took a matter of seconds to find out Baby A’s gender – and we were so excited!!  We also learned that Baby A will be the first one to come into the world if all goes as planned.  Next was Baby B’s turn.  This time it took a little longer to figure it out, but in the end both genders were as clear as day!  The second best part of this ultrasound was finding exactly where each baby is hanging out in there.  Now I have a good idea of where they are, and knowing that plus their genders makes this that much more real.  I’ll tell whether we’ll be an all boy house, all girl, or one of each in an upcoming post:)

As soon as the ultrasound was over, I had this devious feeling of wanting to keep everyone in suspense, but I resisted.  We went home and called parents, brothers and sisters, grandparents, aunts and uncles and our friends to let them know the exciting news.  I loved getting to tell everyone, but by the end of all the excitement, I was exhausted!

Week 19

Week 19 was almost as exciting as the previous week because I felt the babies move for the first time.  I’d been willing them to give me a few good hard kicks for a couple of weeks, but so far I’d felt nothing!  The first few times I felt them left me excited, but also wondering if it really was them.  But after it happened several more times, and I was feeling it on both sides, I realized that yes, it really was our 2 little babies making their presence known!  One thing that made me doubtful at first was that it didn’t feel like a flutter like many people said it would.  It felt more like a really soft little bump from the inside.

Week 20:  and now I’m finally caught up!

Okay, I know I’m going to look back on this and laugh at myself, but I feel like I look huge in this picture!  Not sure if it’s the stripes or if I’ve just doubled in size since last week…but either way I think the baby belly looks large and in charge:)  This week we had another appointment, but no ultrasound.  We did get to hear the heartbeats (which sound like little trains to me by the way) and the doctor checked me and said everything looks perfect!  Yay!  So far I’ve gained 12 pounds.  I wasn’t really sure if that was good or not, but my nurse assured me I’m right on track.  What a relief!  I’ve also been getting in some really solid 3 mile walks this week, which have felt so good.  And we ordered a treadmill, so I see many more walks in my future:)

And now for some randomness from the first trimester (which is obviously a little outdated, but I really wanted to document it somewhere)!

Symptoms (some known and some only I am convinced are because of pregnancy)
nausea (of course), earaches, out of control sense of smell, exhaustion,
lots of bathroom trips, congestion, increased pulse (Jon doesn’t buy this one, but it’s for real),
bad taste in my mouth

Food aversions
pizza, vegetables, mexican food, chips and salsa, diet coke

Food cravings
lime chips, mac and cheese, cheerios, pad thai, orange juice

I realize this post was a complete overload of updates, but the combination of sickness, exhaustion and most recently, pure laziness has inhibited my blogging.  I am kicking myself for not being better about documenting the last few months, and now it’s time for a fresh start.

So, look for upcoming posts on our last big trip just the two of us, nursery updates, the gender reveal!, and how my eating has changed since pad thai and cheerios!

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83 Responses to “Week 20: update post”

  1. So happy for you guys! Been thinking about you hoping all was going well.

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    candice Reply:

    Thanks Heather! I’ve been thinking about you too…it’s been way too long. How is everything going?

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    Heather (Where's the Beach) Reply:

    Things are ok. Been injured so struggling with that and not being able to really run. But overall, I shouldn’t complain ;-)

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    candice Reply:

    So sorry you’ve been injured. I’ve got to hop over to your blog and catch up! I have been so absent from the internet the last few months:( I’m sure it hasn’t been easy being sidelined from running. I’ll be praying for you!

  2. Malissa says:

    Yea!! I was hoping for an update post of some kind :) . You looks beautiful and the picture of you sitting on the floor telling your family is adorable. You look so happy and content. Congratulations again!

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    candice Reply:

    Hey girl! You are so sweet:) I do love that picture of me telling my family, even though it’s a little blurry. It’s one pic I have that truly captures how joyful I feel:) Thanks so much for the congrats! How is everything with you?

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    Malissa Reply:

    Thanks for asking :) I’ve been great and busy! I started a new job at a design center and also working with a couple designers here in Tulsa. It has been fun and I’ve learned a ton. I can’t wait for more updates and hope you’re feeling well :)

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    candice Reply:

    How exciting!! What design center is it? I figure Jonathan might have heard of it. So glad you’ve found a place you love.

    I totally agree about the painted ladies and Full House. We spent about an hour there listening to the theme song on YouTube – I was kind of embarrassed when people kept walking by. Total nerds, lol!

    Malissa Reply:

    Haha I love that you listened to the theme song, that is awesome!

    I’m working for Calico Home, we sell custom furniture, window treatments, bedding etc and have in-home services. The other woman I work for used to have a kind of design co-op but she has downsized her business as she has gotten closer to retirement age, so it is just her and me.

  3. Laura says:

    Well aren’t you the cutest little mama ever? Pregnancy suits you, my dear! Glad to hear that your morning sickness (though it sounds like it was all day long sickness) has subsided. Can’t wait foe the big reveal and other details!

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    candice Reply:

    Thanks for the sweet comment!!

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  4. Krisha says:

    So exciting reading about your good news and someof the process you went through. My hubby and I are unfortunately just begining our battle with fertility. We’ve been trying for over an year now and just found out we both have issues.not sure if our next step will be ifv or something else. Reading about how you felt it would never happen its right on the head. Unfortunately I am in the same boat right now. It feels as if we will never get our babies. It defiantly helps seeing other people in the same boat and reading your success story, so thank you for the encouragement!! Congratulations and look forward to seeing upcoming news about your little ones!

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    candice Reply:

    Hey Krisha! So good to hear from you! I’m so sorry to hear that you are being faced with the struggle of infertility. There’s nothing that feels quite the same as wanting to have a family and it not happening when/how you planned. It breaks my heart to know that you’re having to experience that. I’ll be thinking about and praying for you. It never helped me to hear this – but now that I’m on this end of things I can see how God was working the whole time. His plan just doesn’t always coincide with the plan we have in our own minds, which is so difficult to accept sometimes:( If you ever want to talk about anything, feel free to email me (candice.mccoy@hotmail.com).

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  5. You look great!So excited for you and what the future holds. Parenthood is such a wild ride. You are going to love it!

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    candice Reply:

    Thanks Amber! I’m so so ecstatic:) And I’m so excited for you too, Miss Mama of 3!!

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    I’m so thrilled for you! Been praying and think of you and the babies often!!

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