There are so many things I love about you at this age. I love when you stick your bottom lip out right before you get really really mad. I love how you get so excited and talk louder and louder during play time. You love to entertain yourself! I love the arch of your back when I unswaddle you and you stretch out. I love how most mornings I go to get you out of bed and you’re laying there awake and quiet just looking around. I love when you stop nursing and just look up at me with your big blue eyes. I love your chubby little feet. I love how your eyebrows have just come in over the last couple of weeks – they’re just like your daddy’sJ I love when you sleep on my shoulder or just lay on my shoulder and look around.
- from mama’s letter to you
What you weigh – 9 lbs. 8 oz.
What you eat – nursing full time! Right now you are still eating every 3 hours during the day. At the end of this month Dr. Sigler finally gave us permission to let you sleep until you wake up at night, and the first time we let you, you slept almost 10 hours! I fed you at about 7:30, we put you in your crib about 9, and you slept until 4:30 am! We couldn’t believe it. You did that several nights in a row, and then we noticed you weren’t gaining weight any more. So, we started giving you a dream feed around 10:30. For some reason you just don’t sleep quite as well or as long the more we wake you up to eat, so as of this week we’ve been waking you up to eat around 2 or 3, and we’re hoping your weight gain will be okay. You also have been in a growth spurt this past week, so I’ve been feeding you in between your three hour feedings. Sometimes we struggle with your eating because you still like to fall asleep a bit too much during feedings, but I’m hoping that you’ll get better and better as the weeks go by.
How you sleep – Your sleeping habits are kind of like a roller coaster. One week you sleep great and the next I feel like we have so much progress we need to make. Overall, you just don’t need as much sleep as your sister. I think if I would let you, you would try to stay up all day long and never take a nap! Your daddy and I have to spend a lot of time soothing you before we put you down and you usually have to still spend a few minutes crying before you fall asleep. You rarely sleep longer than about 30-45 minutes before waking up again, and only when we give you your pacifier will you go back to sleep. The good news is that we often get extra mama and Lincoln time while sissy is sleeping (shhh, don’t give us awayJ). You sleep great at night though. After getting permission from the doctor for you to sleep until you wake up, you slept almost 10 hours the first night! Now at the end of the month, you go to bed around 9, I wake you up at 3 to eat and then you sleep until about 7. While your daddy and I are still super sleep deprived because of work and pumping, it has helped a little bit that you’re only getting up once during the night now. I know we are pretty lucky!
What you wear – You are fully in 0-3 months clothes! I finally cleaned out your closet the other day and made myself take out your newborn clothes. It was a very bittersweet moment for me. It makes me so happy to see you getting bigger, but sometimes it scares me how fast you are growing. I want you to stay my little baby boy forever!
Diaper – You are still wearing the Bum Genius newborn size with the hemp inserts, but you are getting very near being too big for them. On a couple of occasions the Velcro has busted open! Any day now you’re going to have to start wearing the bigger size. Another bittersweet milestone for mama and daddyJ
Favorite activities – laying on your playmat, being held, going places, tummy time, rolling over, eating
Least favorite activities – waiting to eat, sleeping, being weighed
Big moments in your fourth month of life – you started laughing, you started lifting your head super high for a long time during tummy time, first trip to church, started holding hands and linking arms with Vivi, first solo outing with Daddy (to Whole Foods)